On Monday night at 8pm I will be performing at the Tiki Bar in Costa Mesa CA, they have a 5 dollar door charge to help to pay for a seasoned comedy headliner to host the event. Most of the comedians will be from my comedy writing stand up class at Cal State University Long Beach. I might tell my jokes along with my stand up of just blurting out stories from my life most of which are about getting rejected by women that I met before, but people seem to love them and can't get enough and I like to tell stories and entertain people so it all works out in the end for both parties I guess!
The more I practice my storytelling and stand up comedy the more I start to understand little by little what people find funny and why they find it so funny. I have a love/hate relationship with people in general but I always strive to make a deep personal connection and a good impression to other people I meet or come across on earth. I want to make a memorable and positive impact to others who meet me or see me around.
I struggle with reading other people or knowing where many other people are coming from, that is where my social skills are the weakest is understanding others, being so intuned with myself and my emotions and self awareness, I struggle of know what to do to impress other people and set up things in advance so that the people I like will like me back. A PUA has great social skills at reading other peoples body language and non verbal clues people send to each other....I have a blindness to being able to pick up most of these clues unless they are obvious like being hostile or threatening to me directly...I know am naive and a little clueless about this in my life.